The secret to squirting…
This one is a little bit risqué but isn’t that what we’re all here for?
There’s an age old debate about whether squirt is actually pee.
To pee or not to pee - that is the question!
I have researched this A LOT and I genuinely (as someone who is neither medically trained or a qualified researcher) believe that squirt is NOT pee…
However
It apparently does contain some chemicals that are ALSO found in urine but, in my personal experience, it has been a completely different type of liquid - clear, unscented etc.
Now I’m not going to bore you with a science lesson - this is simply my experience with squirting and hopefully a few helpful tips for you to maybe explore yourself…
I tend to only be able to squirt when I’m at the juicy pre-ovulation stage where my cervical fluid is already slippery and wet and there’s more of a desire to even want anything inside of my vagina.
Once I ovulate, my cervical fluid changes to a creamier substance and I more often prefer intimate kisses and cuddles and massage than wet and wild penetration.
So - where to start?
I have to be REALLY turned on.
Really, REALLY turned on.
Try to not even touch yourself to start with.
Think about what you want.
Imagine it.
Play with the thoughts.
Feel your pussy getting wet before you even put a finger near it…
Tease and touch and play.
Get yourself really worked up…
The first step is to get intimate with yourself.
You need to really know your body to be able to give yourself what you want.
It was someone else who made me squirt for the first time and I was adamant that I was going to teach myself how to do it because I didn’t want someone else to be able to do to me what I couldn’t already do to myself…
I hope you already know this wondrous fact (because I didn’t until only a few years ago!) but your clitoris is actually mostly internal and not just the teeny, tiny pleasure filled bulb that you can see on the outside of your vulva.
It separates into two internal bulbs which are where you want to stimulate - think up and to the side a little bit - which side, for me, depends on the day but most often my right side is the one that does it for me. That part will just take practice.
A curved dildo is perfect (although not necessary) for reaching the right spot.
Once you find the money spot (it might take you a few tries to see what works for you), it’s time to relax and go for gold!
KEEP GOING until you feel like you’re literally going to burst and still don’t stop…
Literally when you think you can’t hold it in any longer, pull out whatever you were using to pleasure yourself and let the nectar loose!
I find that gently pulling my outer clitoris up towards me creates more of a ‘squirt’ action but otherwise it will most likely run out more gently and can often happen during sex without you even realising.
Top Tip #1
Don’t push TOO hard because then it might be pee! I always go to the toilet first before I get started just in case…
The amount I release usually depends a lot on how horny I was when I got to that point and sometimes I can pull out multiple times creating what feels like Niagara Falls and others it might be the tiniest trickle. I also find that I don’t usually orgasm in the same way I would with clitoral stimulation when I decide to have some squirting fun so I sometimes keep playing afterwards if I want a more intense experience.
Top Tip #2
Sit on a waterproof surface…
Or buy a splash blanket!!!
I’ve learned the hard way not to squirt on the bed. Even if you put down towels, I still manage to soak all the way through to the mattress and having to strip the whole of your bed after a play session is a sure fire way to ruin the mood…
I generally prefer to sit on a carpet free floor so that I know it will be easy to clean up afterwards! Mess is almost always guaranteed!
The most important part of any sexual exploration is to not put too much pressure on yourself and… HAVE FUN!
Happy playing ;)
